Mr. Undelightful

So yesterday was quite eventful, I was cyber-bullied by someone whom I thought I could call me friend and the kicker is I went to prom with this individual. I was not prepared for what was about to take place, I should have known he was capable of such viciousness because I have seen him dog out  the females that HE talked to or had gone out with on facebook and aired out all of their business on the web for everyone to see, secondly, on the night of my senior prom (his junior prom) he acted like a straight douche bag!!!! He made that night that was supposed to be special horrible, I had an horrible time and I would have been better off if I had went alone.


Starting with senior prom we had so much interference, (static) between us while preparing to go to the big event together, the first indicator that maybe we didn't need to go together was that he ( whom we shall call Mr. undelightful)  was a grade level under me and secondly he was so aggressive with me (we got into an argument over the phone)  about matching the colors of his vest and tie to my my prom dress which was a Grecian style electric or navy blue depending on individual interpretations) with rhinestones on the shoulder straps!! It was such a beautiful dress and I supposed it made me look so graceful. Moreover, Mr. Undelightful got so upset with me because he couldn't see the dress before he ordered his tuxes. Personally, I couldn't understand the reason for the anger or aggressiveness because to me it was simple just get a blue vest....DAYUM its not that hard....he wanted to be identical and I tried to tell him as long he stuck to a dark color blue or silver, even black and we would match!!!

Men have no clue about fashion, the identical look is cute and all but we weren't a couple; we were friends and he was just suppose to be my arm candy. I mean I know it couldn't have been that hard to pick a color because my date for my junior prom (Mr. Lamont Cherry) wore an all purple (lilac) suit with pin stripes to match my iridescent purple strapless A-line dress all without ever seeing it....and we looked like royalty (Mr. Cherry had taste if I must say so myself). Mr. Cherry stuck by my side and let me shine just like a gentlemen should, he never left my arm, he made me feel like a queen...Mr. Cherry was older and he didn't go to my high school and we weren't a couple, I hardly knew him a friend of mine hooked us up, but he was a gentlemen and he impressed me. He made me think that all men knew the unspoken rules so he had set the standard for my expectations.

The next problem occurred on the day of prom while I'm getting ready, I called to check in with him to see how things were going and he tells me he doesn't think he is going. That was it, that was all I needed to hear and my day was ruined but the bad events just kept on coming. My aunt, thank God, got to the bottom of the matter and the problem was that his mom wasn't letting him go supposedly because she hadn't met me and he didn't ask her if he could go. That whole scenario just didn't sound right because she allowed him to rent the tux and to go and do manly preparations such as get a shape up and get his hair braided...why would you all of sudden slam the breaks on the day of prom and put a run in my stocking?? Lord, I try to leave room for doubt because I have heard of some crazy ass mama's stories. So, the bottom line was that he didn't ask for his mother's permission (which blew me because that would have been the first thing I would have done and secondly I really didn't think that I need to talk to her as well, which might have been my mistake)

So eventually, everthing gets worked out and my aunt takes us out to dinner and the whole time we're at dinner  Mr. undelightful was very unpleasent. He didn't engage in converstion didn't laugh at any jokes, he was just being a real ass hole!!! After dinner me and Mr. Undelightful were wisked away to prom, I didn't expect much but what happend next was kind of a slap in the face. When the car pulls up to our destination Mr. Undelightful gets out the car and leaves me inside, how rude!! My aunt's friend gets out the car to retrieve him and kindly tells him to go back and open my door. We go to prom and its horrible ....he mumbles, huff and puff and doesn't make conversation.

Based on this incident alone I should have had all the evidence I needed to make the conclusion that Mr. Undelightful was not a guy that deserved respect.....my respect. If all the signs tells you that a man or a boy is a jack ass than you should let that person go, its not good for you and it lets negative engery leak into your life. I didn't cut Mr. Undelightful out of my life until our recent incidents because I believed we could be friends but that was a mistake.
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